Avoiding Assholes https://avoidingassholes.com/ Staying sane in a world of tyrants Tue, 25 Apr 2023 21:08:08 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.2 https://i0.wp.com/avoidingassholes.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/cropped-AA-Logo-1.jpg?fit=32%2C32&ssl=1 Avoiding Assholes https://avoidingassholes.com/ 32 32 214476929 Exposing the Truth about a “Doctor-Priest”: Fake Degrees and Shady Past Revealed #storytime #boss https://avoidingassholes.com/2023/04/25/storytime-boss/ https://avoidingassholes.com/2023/04/25/storytime-boss/#respond Tue, 25 Apr 2023 15:55:00 +0000 https://avoidingassholes.com/?p=99 I was a newly hired personal assistant to a “Doctor-Priest”. One of my first assignments was to get copies of…

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I was a newly hired personal assistant to a “Doctor-Priest”. One of my first assignments was to get copies of all of his degrees because they had been lost in a tragic fire. So, for the record, there has not been, nor is there a San Gabriel Univeristy so that hypothetical Ph.D. – in psychology is completely made up.

This is fun, the California Christian Univeristy that he got a Dr. of Sacred Theology (was that for the “Doctor-or Priest?”- merged in 1980 (the year he “received” that degree) and was later closed. But here is where you can buy a phony degree with their name on it.

An honorary doctorate from California American University in 1980 didn’t happen because it wasn’t founded yet. (It’s amazing how much internet searches have changed in the last 15 years)

picture of a mean priest

International Reform University – Master of Divinity – well here’s a story about them. and the organization behind the founder, who of course has ties to he who shall remain nameless for now.

He also had me verify former companies, which again was just a way to ensure he didn’t leave a paper trail that could be discovered. He certified himself in a niche field, claiming to work places after the owner passed away.

The founding of Empire Savings Bank actually happened in the 60s in NY – but who is counting?

I’ll send another email about the priestly activities and his ongoing friendship with this notorious predator, including knowingly having him around staff’s children.

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Toxic Job Ads https://avoidingassholes.com/2023/02/22/toxic-job-ads/ https://avoidingassholes.com/2023/02/22/toxic-job-ads/#respond Wed, 22 Feb 2023 05:18:19 +0000 https://avoidingassholes.com/?p=91 I’ve worked in corporate America for too long. I was perusing through job ads on linked in and found the…

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I’ve worked in corporate America for too long. I was perusing through job ads on linked in and found the following:

We’re building a community, our chosen circle, around a set of values that guide how we work and interact with the world around us. Our cultural norms at work can’t be turned off when the computer’s away — we live these in every part of our lives. Our team isn’t for everyone, so if you’re right for it, the following values should resonate strongly with how you live your life

.“Don’t Be An Asshole”: We’re intolerant to bad vibes, and genuinely love where we work (and want to keep it that way). We choose our fam by looking beyond a skillset – because roles can change – and surround ourselves with folks we want to spend our lives with.

Regional Sales Executive

  • We’re reasonable
  • We’re ingeniously simple
  • Transparency helps us continually improve
  • We do our best work in teams
  • When our customers succeed, so do we
  • Don’t be an asshole

Accounts payables @ Virgin Orbit

Personal Requirements

Our idea of a happy life: build rockets, work with brilliant people, serve purposeful customers, and open access to space. Sir Richard Branson’s belief is “If you get the perfect mix of people working for your company, you have a far greater chance of success.” From the very start, we have placed top priority on growing and fostering a team of creative, diverse, and talented women and men. In the words of Sir Richard Branson “We believe it’s better to have a hole in your team than an asshole in your team!”

Rocket Reach

🌎 Down to Earth ~ Low-Ego: we are a uniquely humble group that values being low-ego more than anything, and we have a strict no asshole policy. 🚀 One Rocket, One Crew~ Collaborative: A team that can support each other, give and receive productive feedback, as well as coach and be coached is at the heart of our collaborative environment. 📊

Would these ads convince you that there are no assholes that work there, or that they are trying too hard?

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Toxic workplaces https://avoidingassholes.com/2023/02/22/toxic-workplaces/ https://avoidingassholes.com/2023/02/22/toxic-workplaces/#respond Wed, 22 Feb 2023 03:53:55 +0000 https://avoidingassholes.com/?p=89 Toxic workplaces are becoming increasingly common in today’s business climate. By definition, a toxic workplace is a place of employment…

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Toxic workplaces are becoming increasingly common in today’s business climate. By definition, a toxic workplace is a place of employment where there is a culture of mistreatment, negativity, and hostility, often involving physical, mental, or emotional abuse. This type of workplace can be detrimental to the health and well-being of employees and can lead to a desire to quit or drastically limit engagement in the workplace.

One of the primary causes of a toxic workplace is an authoritarian leadership style. This is characterized by an overbearing boss or supervisors, who are inflexible and unwilling to listen to the ideas of their employees. They tend to micromanage their employees and create an atmosphere of fear and intimidation.

I know you have stories to share.

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Fake Phone Calls https://avoidingassholes.com/2023/02/22/fake-phone-calls/ https://avoidingassholes.com/2023/02/22/fake-phone-calls/#respond Wed, 22 Feb 2023 00:38:28 +0000 https://avoidingassholes.com/?p=72 This is one of the funniest, and most annoying things I have noticed about the narcissists I have been married…

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This is one of the funniest, and most annoying things I have noticed about the narcissists I have been married to or worked with – Fake phone calls.

When I was married it was fun listening to him talk to his friends out state, mother, father, sister, etc. Later, I found out he wasn’t – he was literally spending hours making up both sides of the conversation. I figured it was just him….but later, I had a business partner that would yell and scream at other people to do what he said without any arguing. It finally dawned on me that he was just being an asshole to see if he could get a reaction out of me – or perhaps saying things he wished he could say to me.

Finally, I have a client that loves to hear himself talk, but I recently realized when he was having a real conversation I could hear the other person, or he has them on speakerphone.

I’m not really sure of the psychology behind it – have you dealt with people who have fake calls? Why, avoidance? Bragging? Pyschosis?

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